The Wedding Veil

There are many theories surrounding the tradition of the bridal veil. The first theory dates back to Roman times when arranged marriages were common. The bride would wear the veil in order to cover her face until the ceremony was complete. The groom would then be permitted to lift the veil in order to reveal his ‘blushing bride’ for the first time. The bride was therefore protected against the groom backing out of the wedding ceremony if he did not like what he saw.

The second theory, also dating back to Roman times, relates to a practice whereby a groom would throw a blanket over the face of his chosen bride as he captured her.
Yet another thought behind the tradition is that the veil was worn as a means of protection for the bride from evil spirits. It was assumed that if the evil spirits could not see the bride through the material, then they could not destroy her wedding day.

A fourth theory suggests that the veil was used in order to hide the bride’s blushes. The veil is therefore often referred to as a ‘blusher’ and this is where the term ‘blushing bride’ stems from.
In many weddings today, it is still customary for the groom to lift the ‘blusher’ or veil of his bride prior to the first kiss at the wedding ceremony. Times are however changing. Today, many brides choose veils that do not necessarily cover their face, and some choose not to wear one at all. It’s up to you whether or not you decide to wear a veil, however you should note that some religions do require that the bride’s face be covered during the ceremony.

When deciding upon a veil to wear, ensure that it complements the style of your wedding gown. Follow the five golden rules above and you should be fine.
You should also consider the following when selecting your veil:



The position in which you would like your veil to sit. For example, high on the top of your head or lower, towards the bottom of your head (above a low bun, for example).
The length of your veil. If you are particularly short in height (less than 160cm), then an elbow length veil is recommended. If, on the other hand, you are on the taller side, (greater than 168cm), then a fingertip length veil would be more likely to suit. If you’re somewhere in between, then it’s probably fine to go with either.

Consider the detailing, if any, on the back of your gown, and the gown’s overall style. Your veil length should be cut just above or below any focal point on your dress. Also avoid ending the veil length at the waistline or bodice, as it tends to ‘cut you in half’. The veil should end either just above, or just below the waistline.

Consider whether you wish to have any detailing on your veil. Your veil should complement the style of your gown. If your gown features detailing of crystals, for example, you may be able to have these added to your veil to match. You may also choose to have a satin or plain edge, or some other feature. Options are only limited by your imagination. Just remember that your veil should complement, accentuate and be proportional to the dress, not detract from its details.